Meet Shay & Kristy
A video message from Shay & Kristy
A Letter from Shay & Kristy
Thank you for taking the time to read our letter, and getting to know about our family of three. We are truly best friends and enjoy spending time together renovating houses, traveling, spending time with our daughter, and cooking new dishes. We started talking about adoption when we were dating and are thrilled to now start this journey with you. We look forward to giving your child every opportunity in life, teaching them about the world around them, and loving them deeply as they grow.
We are Kristy and Shay and we’ve been married for almost eight years (together for 11 years). We both enjoy renovating houses, traveling, learning about different cultures, and cooking new dishes together. Our adoption journey started as a conversation when we were dating and it is something we have both always wanted. In 2020, much to our surprise, we found out we were expecting and were blessed with a beautiful baby girl, Evangeline (Evie). She is a bundle of joy in our lives and we love watching her learn about the world and seeing her experience things for the first time (it’s amazing how holding a leaf or flower can bring so much joy). We are thrilled to now grow our family through adoption and welcome your child into our loving home. We are excited to share the world with your child and encourage them as they learn and grow.
A former teacher, Shay is a currently a human capital business partner for the local school district. He is outgoing and has a gift for making others laugh. Practical jokes are one of his favorite things, and he is always thinking of new ways to be silly. He works hard at his job and is very proud of our family and home. Shay enjoys grilling on the deck, spending time with our family and friends, and playing with our dogs, and making our daughter smile. He is always ready to give Evie an “airplane” ride around the house, help her practice her walking, or a fun round of peek-a-boo. He is looking forward to teaching her, and your child, how to play different sports, ride bikes, cook, and encouraging their interests.
Kristy is a teacher by trade and is thoughtful and compassionate. It was important for her to choose a career where she improved people’s lives, got to work with children, and still had time for her family. For the past year she has been a stay at home mom, leaving plenty of time for her and our daughter to have picnics, ride bicycles, and visit the great parks and museums in our area. Kristy likes to sew, bake, look for great deals, and explore garage sales. She is excited to have another pair of little hands to help put the icing on cupcakes or glaze some homemade doughnuts.
Kristy can’t wait to become a mom of two (or three!) and spend her days encouraging our children’s passions and nurturing their gifts as they grow.
Our daughter Evie is almost two years old and is curious, loves to cuddle, dance, laugh, and enjoys a cartoon called Dora the Explorer. Shay and his sister are very close and we are excited for our daughter and your child to grow up with the same wonderful sibling bond.
Shay’s retired parents love to go shopping and are relocating closer so we can all spend more time together. Shay’s sister is a Doctor in Washington DC and drives down often- even for little things. Kristy’s father builds homes and loves to teach people how to build and fix things. Kristy’s mother and stepfather are animal lovers, and it’s not uncommon to see them feeding neighborhood cats or wild rabbits, or hugging on our dogs. Both of our dogs, Sydney and Jack, are rescues and are loved members of the family.
We have very diverse backgrounds and we believe that it is important to honor where you came from. In our family, we’ve merged the customs, traditions, and foods from our various backgrounds. We promise to honor your child’s heritage as well by making your traditions part of our traditions.
Our Home in North Carolina
We moved to North Carolina ten years ago so that we could start our family in a place with strong values, and where we could provide a comfortable lifestyle for our future children. We chose our home with our family in mind. It has great schools, plenty of bedrooms for our growing family and for the family to come visit, and a wonderful yard to play games in. We love that the kitchen is open to the family room and breakfast nook so that it is easy to spend family time together. We have a large deck across the back of the house which is perfect for grilling. We’re only 15 minutes away from the country club where we are members and its just three houses down from the neighborhood park!
We promise to love your child unconditionally. To always have their best interest at the forefront of every decision, to provide them with every opportunity that we can for them to learn, grow, be successful, confident, and happy. We promise to do everything possible to maintain safety and stability so they’re comfortable being themselves. We look forward to getting to know you and already consider you part of our family. We promise to honor the level of openness and contact that you are comfortable with.
If you would like to learn more about us, please call or text Lifetime at 1.800.923.6784.
Learn More About Shay & Kristy
|Our Education||Bachelors of Science in Biology, Masters of Science in Healthcare Management, Masters of Arts in Executive Leadership Studies||Bachelors of Science in Psychology, Masters of Arts in Executive Leadership Studies|
|Our Professions||School District Administrator, Former Science Teacher||Stay at Home Mom, Former Fifth Grade Teacher|
|Stay-At-Home||Part Time- Work from home most days||Yes|
|Our Racial Background||Caucasian and Middle Eastern||Caucasian and Hispanic|
|Some of Shay & Kristy's Favorites|
|Favorite Food||Chicken Tikka-Masala||Breaded Chicken Cutlets|
|Favorite Dessert||NY Cheesecake||Brownies|
|Favorite Holiday||Halloween or July 4th||Christmas|
|Favorite Movie||Stepbrothers||ELF and the Little Mermaid|
|Favorite Show||Game of Thrones||The Good Place|
|Favorite Hobbies||Family Time & Home Improvement||Family Time & Travel|
|Favorite Color||Navy Blue||Yellow|
|More About Our Family|
|Our Special Interests|
One of the great things about our marriage is that we have very similar priorities and interests. Both of us believe that God and our family (which includes children!) are the most important things in our lives, and spending time with family and friends is definitely our number one. We both love traveling, teaching, cooking, and real estate. We enjoy learning about different cultures, languages, traditions, histories, and of course, the food! Kristy likes crafting, decorating, design, and fashion. Shay enjoys home improvement and gardening, and always has a project to make our house more beautiful or functional in the works.
We were both raised in religious Christian households and our faith is an important part of who we are. Kristy was raised Catholic and Shay was raised in both the Coptic Orthodox and Catholic Churches. We believe that God has a plan for everyone and everything. From bringing us together, to the birth of our daughter, and being called to the miracle of adoption to grow our family, we trust in his plan and look forward to what’s in store.
|Our Musical Interest|
Our musical interests are a reflection of our experiences and cultures. Our playlists will often bounce around from classical to reggaeton, Frank Sinatra, late 90s east coast rap, Arabic dance, alternative rock, and Kristy’s lists will almost always include some country music. Since music is a reflection of our family, music from your child’s background will definitely be added to the mix!
|About Our Home|
We have a 3500 square foot, 5-bedroom, 3.5 bathroom home in a beautiful area. The house sits on over a half acre with a big backyard complete with a fig tree. The kitchen overlooks the family room and breakfast nook, allowing for family time even when one of us is cooking up dinner. The living room has a 2 story, wood-burning, stone fireplace, perfect for boardgame evenings in front of the fire. We recently renovated the backyard to provide more room for children to run, kick around a ball, and play. The nursery gets a ton of natural light and is right beside the master bedroom for when your child is ready to move out of the bassinet. There will be lots of opportunities to meet all the other kids in the neighborhood since our house is less than half a block from the neighborhood playground. A huge, 2 story deck is perfect for grilling and sharing a delicious meal in the fresh air.
|We Prefer a Child Who Is...|
|Age of Child|
Newborn to 12 months old
We would be so excited to welcome twins, and even triplets, into our family!
We would be very excited to welcome a sibling group into our family with the oldest up to 2 years old.
We are thrilled to welcome a child (or children) into our hearts through adoption. We cannot wait to love and support your child as they grow up, spend time nurturing their interests, and teaching them to be wonderful adults. We promise to respect the level of contact that you are comfortable with.